October 28, 2009

things i'm glad i brought

I'm starting another short-post series, much like "small thoughts" and "wtf moments," where I dedicate a blog post to something that has been crucial to my comfort and success in my service, with the idea that it will help invitees and future trainees pack for their trip. In this post, I have two items I'd like to identify. First:

My Headlamp

This thing has seen some serious use in the past few weeks. I would be quite lost without it. Well, not necessarily, but it has contributed leaps and bounds to not only my own personal comfort, but also to my host family. Even in a homestay that has electricity like mine, a headlamp can be used every day. I use it at night when I turn out the lights in my room so I can properly tuck my mosquito net under my bed. When the electricity goes out in the evening (which is usually 2 or 3 times a week), it's usefulness quadruples. It's hands-free, so it's easy to use while cooking food, carrying things, washing pots, or just general business at night (choo visits). The other item I'd like to mention:

Baby Wipes

Tanzanians don't use toilet paper like Americans do (they use water and their left hand), although it is sold in many dukas (shops) in my area. Unfortunately, it's not the Charmin Ultra quintuple-ply super soft paper that my bottom is used to, so this can cause problems. Luckily, my parents thought to have me pack some baby wipes, and boy am I happy I did. I'm actually so happy I did, I'm having my parents send me more.

birthday

So I feel a little bad about this post, because my birthday yesterday wasn't really a big deal.  My mama didn't find out until last night apparently, even though I figured if I told one of my brothers in the morning, the information would disseminate through the family (we've been told on multiple occasions this happens frequently with Volunteers simply because of their status).  Well, it didn't this time, and my mama was a little upset that we didn't do anything special.  Which isn't entirely true.  I actually went to a bar in the afternoon and met a big chunk of my training class for cupcakes and drinks.  It wasn't crazy as some might expect, but awesome nonetheless.  In fact, a fellow trainee in my CBT was more visibly excited for my birthday than I was.  We've slowly learned over the past few days that this is the kind of person she normally is, and that she's been hiding it from us until now.  I'm glad my birthday could bring her out of her shell.

I also got to try the "pombe" here, which is the word for the local brew.  It's actually not all that local, but it's banana beer, which is very different from normal beers.  For one thing, it made my lips numb.  Generally not a good sign when sipping alcohol.  Maybe the fact it was 10% alcohol had something to do with that?  And of course for this reason, I could not finish it.  Not that I didn't enjoy it at all, it actually didn't taste too bad, but we have been warned to steer clear of the "pombe."  They aren't always brewed in conditions we would consider sanitary...

So overall, yesterday was a great day.  To end the day, I cooked and talked with my mama, which made me feel really good.  My Kiswahili was very good last night for some reason.  Probably a God thing.

Photo update:  The internet cafe where I've been uploading pictures has decided to block flickr.com, and thus far I haven't been able to circumvent it.  I'm still working on this issue, but if I can't find a solution soon, I may upload some photos to Facebook.  I'll keep you all posted, because I have been taking tons of pictures!  So many that my hard drive is just about full now, which is another problem itself.

October 18, 2009

wtf moments

We've all had those twilight zone moments in our lives, where you think "what in the world is going on???" My night last night was like this.

Yesterday, I cooked with my CBT in the morning before we took a trip to a school near CCT to play some sports. When I told my mama about the sports day we were having, she informed me that my brother was going to a celebration after dark, and that I would be joining him. So she inquired what time I would be home, and I informed her it wouldn't be later than 6 (the "celebration" started at 7).

After the sports day, I came home and greeted my baba, and then I asked him about the party I was supposed to go to. He told me it was a wedding ceremony, and my mind started to wander. There's already been a few stories about weddings floating around our training class, all of them generally not good. But I was ready to try something new, and I thought it would be fun to see another part of the culture. Given the title of this post, you can see where this is going.

One thing I wasn't expecting...it got cold. And I had a long sleeve dress shirt on. The reception was outdoors, and the night winds were whipping. It even threatened to rain a few times, which would have been quite awful had the sky opened up. Of course, that isn't the wtf moment. First, we need to bring some alcohol into the mix. So when we entered the reception, we receieved two "coupons" for drinks, which my kaka exchanged for two Castle beers for me. For all of you that are unaware, Tanzanian beers are almost twice as big as American beers and contain higher concentrations of alcohol. The Castle beers we had at the wedding were 12 proof. It wasn't long before I realized I was in trouble. I'm well aware of my lightweight status when it comes to consuming alcohol, so I was fairly sure my second beer wasn't even going to be opened. After finishing half of my first beer, I felt light-headed and quite sleepy (remember sports day earlier today?).

Then the hunger set in. My CBT ate our brunch at 12 noon, but it was brunch. We ate fruit, eggs, and bread. Not exactly enough to sustain me for the next 10 hours. But it had to, because we didn't get food at this wedding until 10pm. And here's the wtf moment. Standing in line for food, I noticed the girl at the end of the serving line looked awfully familiar. I thought, "what??? That doesn't make any sense, why would she be here for one, and why in the world would she be serving food???" I was convinced it was someone else, and left it to my imagination that she was in my training class. But sure enough, when I got to the end of the line...

"Hey Dave."
"What are you doing here???"
"Serving you food, what does it look like?"
"What in the world is going on...there's a story here, isn't there..."
"Oh, there is..."

To reiterate, wtf?

What's funny is this would've made the perfect mefloquin-induced vivid dream (mefloquin is my anti-malarial drug). Why on earth it actually happened, I haven't the slightest, but I will definitely get the story from my friend about serving food at the wedding and share it. My mind has been buzzing all night with ideas about what the Peace Corps really does behind the scenes. I was telling my kaka on the walk home that it felt like the Peace Corps was orchestrating these weird situations on purpose to see how we react. Almost like a big brother reality show. But of course, delirium and exhaustion can make you think and say crazy things.

I still can't get over that "wtf???" feeling, though...

EDIT: I know this is long overdue, but I don't want to leave future readers hanging. The resolution of this story is that my friend, Charlotte, was living with one of the families involved in the wedding. As a "family member," she had to serve food at the reception. Certainly not the kind of experience you would expect to have during your Pre-Service Training in the Peace Corps.